MeKate's got a new Etsy store. Gorgeous paintings!
A dear friend is selling ADORABLE handknit baby clothes. If you're in the market, have a look!
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So, I try not to get all “my pregnancy experiences are worse than yours” with people, because, let’s face it, I usually win. And part of “letting it go” means keeping my mouth shut when people say stupid things that, granted, they’re probably saying because they don’t know what I’ve been through these last couple [...]
Alas, I am sorry to have to admit to you all – or at least, you three who asked – that ‘Thor’ has fallen out of the running as an eventual name for Sprog. I still think that Thor would be a kick-ass name, which would save the child no end of grief in the [...]
So, I had two doctors’ appointments today, which put quite the dent in my Realm-o’-Pain time. Always a good thing. SuperStarOB did a doppler – heartbeat! An external U/S – Wiggly alien! And an internal U/S – Wiggly Baby! With a brain! All is (still) well, and SuperStarOB seemed pretty contented with where everything was [...]
So, I celebrated yesterday’s good news by taking the Boy out to dinner – seriously yummy Syrian food – and splurging on baby clothes. Baby boy clothes that aren’t accountant-ish or thuggish. Seriously, maybe I should become a baby-clothes designer? I’ve found myself seriously put off by almost all the boys’ clothes available out there, [...]
And All Is Well!!! Whew. We got nifty take-home 3-d pictures to take home today, though Thor still looks pretty lumpy to me. ”See? That’s his hand up over his face. See?” I nodded dutifully when the tech asked, but really? It just looks like lumps to me. Beloved lumps. Wonderful, glorious, heart-beating lumps. And [...]
Ok, first off, thank you all for your encouragement & support. I’m doing better this morning. No episodes yesterday or so far this morning. I’m hoping it was just a one-off thing, designed to freak me the fuck out. It worked. But I’m not thinking about that right now. Right now I’m thinking about tomorrow’s [...]
…not a good day. Well, it was until about 3pm, at which point I stood up from my desk to go work out amidst the public, and felt a gush of fluid running down my leg. So, immediate rush to panic stations, and the bathroom. It wasn’t blood, just clear/tinged pink, non-urine-smelling fluid (though I [...]
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My husband and I started trying to conceive in October of 2007. We figured it'd be easy since he already has three daughters who were conceived within a month of trying.
Hah.
Three IVFs: (1 missed miscarriage at 8 weeks, 1 ectopic pregnancy miscarried at 5 weeks, 1 spontaneous pregnancy that ended in a missed miscarriage at 5 weeks); and 1 FET (a missed miscarriage at 9 weeks.)
Which equals: lots of drugs injected, lots of money spent, lots of weight gained. But no live babies. Infertility sucks. RPL sucks ass.
So we moved on to using donor eggs, and achieved a healthy, genetically normal pregnancy our first try. After all the drama of the last few years, my pregnancy was essentially uneventful.
Henry was born on September 18, 2010 and he is, without a doubt, the best thing that ever happened to me. This blog is in the process of becoming less of an ongoing infertility journal and more of a mommy/radical homemaker/writer blog. Can't wait to see what's next for us.
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